Thread:Killingintents/@comment-29664475-20190928073351/@comment-43860862-20190929012037

i'm sorry. i honestly can't care enough to continue this discussion so i'll seed you the petty victory you're so desperately fighting for. i'm not harassing you in the slightest. you are commenting on my wall.

yes, i intitally commented on your wall because your behavior regarding my edits was, in my opinion, childish and immature. you then proceeded to delete that comment, which was fine and something i likely wouldn't have even noticed to start with, and then comment on mine to continue this discussion. i then replied and guess what happened then? you replied. you continuing to reply to me shows that you show interest in engaging and continuing this conversation. if it were a case of me pursuing you after you asking me to cease contact, then it would be harassment.

this is what we humans call "conversation", or perhaps even "discourse" as others may call it.

you are fixated on the genitals of a child, as you are solely using that as a basis to identify them. and to me, that is bizarrely notable behavior. you even stated in your own reply that usumgallu doesn't even have a canonical gender - which should therein leave it at "indeterminate", along with their species. so by your own logic, even you're wrong. yet, your still hyperfocused on the fact that they have a penis and breasts and are so desperate to make note of that several times throughout their profile.

so yeah, dude. that's weird.

also, as a transgender person - i have to say it's hilarious to have someone tell me to educate myself on the dynamics of gender. i have a pretty firm understanding of it already, dude. you simply have a cisnormative and ignorant perception of it, in still thinking that biological sex has anything to do with gender identity.

anyway, this is the smallest amount of power i've seen go to someone's head - but i guess that's human nature.

anyway, take care. i hope you too take the time to educate and enlighten yourself on your preconcieved notions of gender and how exactly the human body and how general knowledge of biological sex is mostly misinformed. oh, and do not contact me again. i will do the same wrt you.

ps: i do want to note that you play the victim card very well. you didn't "sympathetically concede" to my complaint until my second edit and my threat to contact fandom staff to inform them that you were using slurs as identifiers, lul. but ok, oh mighty self righteous one. please, spare us far inferior creatures.

edit: sorry, just to really clarify because i feel like you still don't quite understand. my concern isn't for how the character is being referenced as much as people will be looking up duranki and it would genuinely suck for someone who is intersex and therein stigmatized for that to have to look at a slur used to offend and dehumanize people like them. you aren't taking notes on the series in a private journal. this is a public website that is meant for people to come to for information in reference to series they enjoy.

you keep bringing up how it's a "technically correct" term in defense of it's use wrt usumgallu, which is fine - but doesn't change it's use and context in the real world and how it negatively affects real people who have to live with hearing it used derogatorily.